Pour oil on troubled waters

With my due respect, their troubled marriage should be ended.

When they get married, either of them is humble. As time elapses, both of them become complacent instead of complaisant. Happy families are the same, but unhappy family has their own misfortunes. Most people let marriage slide after they get married because of their laziness. Happy marriage needs to be fostered, not leaving it alone. Fostering a sense of gratitude is one good way to cultivate happy marriage.

In the marriage, almost a majority of people gradually slide into idleness, they leave it growing unattended. We could call them basic instinct. It seems as we coasted on the slippery ice if marriage is happy. And you will get a sense of freedom. Thus far I have not got married, in fact, I couldn`t share practical experience in marriage. However, I truly have witnessed some happy and unhappy marriages. I concede that happy marriage proceeds from good dispositions, including knowledge, virtuous beauty, moral freedom and sufficient substance. And then it could inheritted by their children. Good nature can stimulate children into nurturing themselves in every aspect. Eventually, that will be a very good positive spiral.

Our teachers or parents always stress that we should show more initiative. What does that mean? From my perspective, it may include immediate action, perseverance, patience and so on. As a matter of fact, almost all of decisions were made on my own initiative from small to large. I am not a boldly determined boy, but I do my best to do all things. At times, I often lapse into silence and try to grasp the meaning of life. Gradually, I hold something in its grip, yup, it is about belief which may improve me and propel me to rough path. There is a moral saying: when the going gets tough, the tough get going. I am incapable of being able to maneuver everything but I could adjust myself when I face sticky patch. What I can manipulate is to manipulate myself into being a tough, obstinate man. I don`t want to suffer the same fate as my family. Maybe all things are predetermined, and I am improbable of change my fate. In my opinion, the most important thing is to tackle roadblock and hold some dexterity. At the same time, learning some stratagem and tactic is necessary. I must not be a fugitive. I will be as tough as a sniper.

On the roadside, there are lots of luxury cars, ranging from BMW to Porsche. A car accident happened yesterday morning at the highway, a crowd of people were stalled ahead. Ambulances parked on the side of road. Health workers are save casualties and several pillboxes were placed close to medical staff. Meanwhile, police convoy the accident scene. Health workers are escorted by the policemen in order to protect the scene of the accident. The police could not take arbitrary decisions. Moreover, they mustn’t be at whim. Indulging every whim of accident would get penalty, because they are not despot. Now, it is not a despotic time, not a feudal time.